Thursday, 24 January 2013

ON THE EVE OF MAULIDUR RASUL: THE DIVINE GIFT


 Hari ini kita memperingati Mauludur Rasul tanda kesyukuran kita kepada Illahi.

On 20.7.2008, through much persuasion by my  neighbour-daughter, i was admitted to Sime  Darby Medical Centre, with a terrible wound in my right foot. The wound was an after result of a small blister between the big toe and the second toe. The blister was incurred as a result of walking in a semi tight shoes,from tha International Eye Specialist Centre, in Mid Valley City, to the taxi stand to catch a taxi to take me hone after a treatment at tha centre.
The greatness of Allah's invaluable gift.

Knowing that I am a diabetic, i quickly went to  a local GP, to treat my blister. After days of taking antibiotic prescribed by the GP, the blister got worse. So much so I was advised by the GP, to consult an orthopaedic surgeon which I did.
I was treated by this Otho surgeon for a couple of weeks at the SDMC. I was very amused when the surgeon told me that my ailment will heal in no time. Very soon I would be able to mount Gunung Kinabalu he said.

Allah is great and He is Almighty. SuhanaAllah. Humans can only plan, but the final decision is definitely Allah's. My blister got worse. Actually I destroyed my self, for, the surgeon had advised me not to wet the blistered foot with water. I was very stubborn. When I wanted to do  the Solat I wet the foot. Little did I know that tap water is germ full. The blister was beyond repair because of the diabetes.

Seeing the condition of the wound caused by the blister, my neighbour-daughter persuaded me to go to SDMC. Without much argument I had to accord. For it was for my own good too. At the centre my would was dressed. The wound definitely had deteriorated. For,the flesh was rotten and soggy. It was definitely bad for the nurse that dressed the wound  inserted into the hollow in the foot about a meter of ribbon gauze to suck out the soggy mess inside. I was then warded for treatment. My health deteriorated. For at one moment I was even in the blue. I collapsed blacked out. I underwent some series of tests and was injected with some various medicine, it was to no avail. Finally the unfortunate right foot was amputated ankle high, it was the unfortunate 16th day of July, year 2008 that Abu Aman was fated to be a handicapped, an OKU, a disabled old man at 65 years of age.  Abu Aman lost his right leg.
Destinasi terakhir Kembara TIBIES di rumah Ghazali Yasin di Kuala Johol.

Who knows what was in store for me, except, The Great Allah. Allah nicely planned things for me and family right from the start. At first He prompted my wife to move to KL to be near the children.  If anything should happen to me she would be helpless, in Taman Setiawan. For we had nobody else in Tampin. There will be only the  three  of us, my wife, my handicapped child, and me. In KL there will be our children, our nieces and nephews, as well as our sisters. Such was the logic that urged us to move to KL.

Next item in Allah's agenda was for me to really want to buy an auto driven car, which I did in February 2008. In July I  buried my precious and priceless leg. Now I drive around with my left leg, without  doing anything to the car. There was no modification whatsoever done to the peddle. Such is the love of Allah for me, which I must be thankful to him, Syukran Jazilan Ya Allah,!!!
Abu Aman Bachik (right) with Mohamad Ibrahim at Salleh's Kemansah Heights home, 25 December 2012. Fetched by Ghazali Yasin all the way from Kuala Johol.

Another Greatness and the Almighty of Allah is manifested in his bestowal of gems and angels of friendship to me. They are in the form of  ex Brinsfordians such as Hj Abdullah Sani bin Hj Abdul Ghani, Hjh Azizah bt Abd Hamid, Haji Hassan bin Hewab and Hjh Zainab bt Kechik who forever will come to visit me, ever since after our college days, Dr. Hj. Mohyani bin Razikin who will always call and SMS me to wish me well and to find out how  the family and me were.

And now I am yet bestowed with  two sets of angels and pearls of friends in the form of Ahmad Fadzil bin Hj Yassin and Mohd Ghazali bin Yasin. They are not blood brothers though. But they are definitely brothers in Islam. I feel it is not too much for me to call them angels and pearls of friends because they aro so lovable, so kind and so selfless and helpful, especially for a handicapped person like me. Why do I have a very, very high esteem and regards of them???

For AFY, he comes to my house to fetch me and send me back afterwards when we finish visiting friends, or attending a wedding, or attending a khenduri. We went together to German Malaysia Institute at bangi, to attend Tuan Presiden son's wedding. Together we travelled to Bandar Spring Hill in Port Dickson to  attend Dato' Abdullah Abbas and Datin Rozna's khenduri Menyalang anak kembar mereka. On the 25th December we went together for Kembara TIBIES SATU, to Kuala Johol, after attending  a wedding ceremony in Seremban, a trip to Penajih, to Semerbuk, to Tenyamor in Rembau and finally to Kuala Johol. Next will be a trip to Mohamad Ibrahim sister's house in Tenyamor, for MI's wedding anniversary Khenduri, And then to our Alma Mater TBS the Great which will be our Kembara TIBIES DUO.

For GY, he stopped at my house on his way to Salleh Simon's house who threw a goodwill party, to fetch me along, all the way from Kuala Johol, to  attend SS party. He has already promised me on his way to AFY's house on 3/2/2013, to stop at my house and fetch me to bring me along to AFY's house for the Pot Luck Grand First Gathering.

Such is Almighty Allah's love for me. He accepted my rotten foot, instead he gave me a better substitute.  FRIENDSHIP AND ITS GREAT VALUES. Allah Hu Akbar. Nothing is impossible for Him. Allah The Benevolent.      aab putra heights, 153824032013, eve of Maulidur Rosul.

22 comments:

  1. A beutiful adn lovely piece of writing, I love you AAB.

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  2. Abu Aman Bachik: Thank very much AFY for the Post. Baru nak baco hah.
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    Ishak Othman: Allah maha adil, maha megasihi abg AAB.
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    Hattar Othman: A beutiful and lovely piece. You're lovable Abang AAB.
    3 hours ago · Like · 1
    Abu Aman Bachik: Mang bona kato u IO. Tiada yang Mustahil bagi Nya.
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    Abu Aman Bachik: Timokasih bebanyak, HO. Moga Allah merahmati mu dan YOU r very lovable too, HO.
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    Ahmad Fadzil Yassin: Not at all AAB. Ese baghu balik dari Kajang. Dan sekarang ini sedang baco komen kenkawan. Mokasihlah.
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  3. Abu Aman Bachik: Mokasih kembali AFY!
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    Ghazali Yasin: Ese baghu dapek maco coghito yang AAB tulih tu. Sungguhpun AAB menghadapi halangan dan kesusahan dari segi fizikal insan yg berhati mulia seperti AAB ini tetap bersyukur kpd Allah swt. Kisah yg tersirat di sebalik coghito tu memberi pengertian mendalam kpd kito sumo tentang kekuasaan Allah swt dan perlunya kito berbaik-baik dan mengasihi sesamo manusio. Syukur, Allah menganugerahkan kepada Bang Abu anak2 yg soleh dan solehah. Bang Abu, sumbangan ese terlalu kecil. Jika Bang Abu perlukan bantuan, Insya'Allah ese dan Noriah akan datang ke Putra Heights. Bagi ese, bilo kito dapek mendampingi orang yang kuek iman dan ketaqwaannyo kpd Allah swt energy dan aura yg ado pd dirinya itu sampai kek ese. Mokasih.
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    Abu Aman Bachik: Iyo koh dek oi. Sampai aura eh tu yeh. JazakaAllah Hu Khaira. Syukran Jazilan Ya Allah. Tiada yang mustahil bagi Nya. Allah Hu Akbar. Allah maha Agung.

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    Ahmad Fadzil Yassin: Mahasuci Tuhan Diolah sogalo-galo eh.Allah hu Akhbar!
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  4. Another gem from AAB. After such a long time, another piece of loveable material is ever more presentable. I long for another and there it is again. How I wish more write-ups from the familiar personalities, like ZA, Nasa Abu Bakar, Hattar Othman and AFY. I follow the activities of Alumni TBSST with interest, but at no time I will isclose my identity and will continue being Faithfully Yours. Wish you all best of luck.And most of all be happy. One of the "lucuest" things I gather from comments posted in FB and the Alumni blog is the eligible bachelorhood of CLA. That skinny runner from Pulau Sebang. ZA, don't be too harsh on Anonymous. They are also makhluk Tuhan with wonderful hearts. Give them a chance to spek out as Anonymous. Some of them might deliver some pretty good ideas.

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  5. Alhamdulillah,donga soro u balik FY, thanks for appreciating the post. Your silence somehow affected my creativity. Anyway thank you ver much lovely lady for chipping in again. Hope to hear more from you. Tompek jatuh tontu tokonang, apo lai tompek berbalah kan FY. Assalam and may Allah always bless you and family. Convey my Assalam to Kich Moor

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  6. FY, dah hampir setahun you berselindung di balek hijab. Apo yang nakyou surok an bebona ni. Lets accept takdir Allah FY, tiada apa yang you nak malukan atau you nak rasa rendah diri. Sumo kito samo. Ado yang bernasib lebih baik sedikit, ada yang bernasib kurang baik sedikit. Allah maha agung dan kaya Fy. You patut bersyukur bebona kerana menjadi pilihan Allah untuk apa yang you ada sekarang. Usahlah terima itu sebagai kekurangan semata mata. Anggap lah itu sebagai anugerah Allah jua. Bukan semua wanita yang Allah pilih untuk menerima ujiannya seoerti yang you di uji. Pasti Allah tahu you mampu dan redha menerima ujiann nya ini FY. Lets be positive FY dear. Come ang join us at AFY's house this 3/2/2013 to enjoy our friendship and the Pot Luck. Tiada apa yang nak di sorokkan. Kita semuanya sama. Ada lebeh, dan ada kurang. Dah tetua ni, lets think positive, and lets be thankful to Allah for giving us life thus far. Usah lah melihat kedalam kekurang an diri sahaja. Lihat lah juga ke alam semesta dan nikmatilah keagungan Ciptaan Allah. Insaf lah FY. We have not much time to brood on what is past. Lets be thankful for the present and hope for the dawn of tomorrow to be better than just now. Lets foster our ukhuwah shal we FY. Life will be definitely be more meaningful. In Sya Allah. Nothing is impossible with Allah around and His help.

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  7. Jamilah Ujang: Sungguh terharu selepas membaca cerita bro AAB.Semalam saya terlalu sibuk x sempat nk.baca.Alhamdulillah segala2 nya berjalan dgn baik."Friendship Multiply Joys and Divide Griefs.
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    Abu Aman Bachik: JU glad that you appreciate it. Just to state my heart felt gratitude. That caption there is nice JU. Tqvm and Assalam.
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  8. AAB, I've conveyed your message to Kich Moor, and she appreciated it very much. Please keep to the promise we've had. Do not, and I say it again, do not try to do away with it. Also stop preaching and the mention of the Alighty God and that we are already old. Yes we are old, but that does not mean everyone should follow the same path of righteousness. There are far too many paths which we could choose from to follow. One good example is what the Malay saying goes "manusia dipegang pada janjinya." As regards the pot luck at AFY's house this 3 February, make no mistake, I will not be in the position to present myself at such an awkward occasion, bearing in mind the past remorse.I am yet to recover from that emotional jittery. No, AAB, that would be suicidal. Bye and again be happy.And my warmest regard to that skinny runner. I love to watch him running. He was always a sure winner in the field.

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  9. Thankyou very much for responding and conveying my salam to Kich Moor. Saya minta maaf kerana mengganggu perasan FY dengan harapan di atas. Ternyata FY tetap dengan pendirian istiqamah anda. Tetapi alangkah murninya keadaan jika kita sedia maaf memaafkan, and let by gone be by gone. Well you can only lead the hungry and thirsty horse to the water, but you cannot force it to drink anyway. Nevertheless, an effort has to be made. Whether the effort will be fruitful or otherwise, depends on the situation and goodwill of the persons involved. Well dear FY best regards to you and family, and all the best in all your undertakings. Assalamualaikum! Moga Allah memeliharamu dan famili sentiasa.

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  10. Di bulan Maulidur Rasuk ini eloklah kita saling bermaaf-maafan, ikut Sunnah Nabi. Den kan apo doh. Den tak ondak kito bocakaran macam oghang politik. Kito bokeh pelajar TBS, ado aura kito sondighi. Somangat silaturrahim kito makin kuek den tengok. Den bona-bona banggo. Nasihat Faithfully Yours dan AAB itu patut monjadi tauladan. Malah tak ado apo yang kito mintak maaf doh. Bialah masin-masing dongan pogangan dan pondiriannya. Dan kito boto yang kudo yang dahago tak boleh dilakso ditarik ko sungai nak minom. Biarkanlah dio sondighi yang datang moncaghi air. Kudo pun ado dorianya sondighi. Tak payahlah kito lobeih momandai daripado dio. Lagikan di tongah gurun pasir pon dio dapek moncaghi air, inikan pulak di bolantaro Air Mawang.

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  11. That's my cikgu AAB. And we will be alright.

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  12. FY,you sure will. Cause Allah is always there to guide and bless you, very lovely lady. Nothing is impossible to Allah!!!

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  13. Everytime I listen to the theme song "Looking Into Your Eyes" of the famous Robin Hood's feature comedy, Starring Kevin Costner (correct me if I am wrong), I realized that you were not that ordinary man I used to assume that you ight be. You were and still is the saint whose benevolent attitude and deed is second to none.U know cikgu, I could not sleep tonight thinking those wonderful years during those yesteryears at TBS. They have long gone, and yet tonight I was so remorseful and wish I would be with the schoolmates again, enjoying the social surrounding.The tuck shop, the field, the famous steps and the school ground or the TBS Square (today it should rightly named as Dataran TBS.Sometimes, I saw you from a distance, patrolling the school copound during recess.Oh my God! those were the days. If only time could revert itself, I would be the most lucky person should and on Cloud 9 entertaining an unrequited love.It is alredy 4.36 am on 28 Jan 2013. To be exact. And I am still staring through the window, yonder, towards the the hills of Bukit Antarabangsa.

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  14. Oh FY, but it was only a wishful thinking. If only we could relived the moment. Oh how very wonderful. Well very lovely ladyy, ngan ikut an bebona perasaan tu. bebanyaklah berzikir dan beristigfar, mohon Allah mententeram kan jiwa kita. Zaman itu nothing but only awesome memories. Nothing is impossible to Allah. Allah hu Akbar, walillah hil hamd. Bye lovely lady.

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  15. Thanks Cikgu AAB for the "salam"nya. With pleasure. Mum and Me would do anything to portray an effectively positive image of Mum's own personal sentiment during those "turbulent" school days at TBS. I would have thought that this feeling was normal under such circumstances between Mum's admiration towards someone as glamorous as Cikgu AAB and Mum's feeling of an helpless kid toying around with rich imagination of wanting to be close with that someone she admired.

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  16. Well Kich Moor, thanks for your very welcome response. It is definitely sweet of you to do so.

    Well unfortunately, AAB was glamourous only in the eyes of the lady in the form of your mom. Or may be it was fortunate for him. For otherwise, it would be very difficult for AAB, and he would be swell headed, thinking that he had many silent admirers, that he would be boasting of to his friends now.

    Anyway thanks very very much to your mom and AAB is defintely sorry for her as he could not respond to her feelings then, that she had to pay a terrible price in the form of her development in her education. Oh what a pity!!!

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  17. Seindah wajah, seraut kasih. Waktu adalah segala-galanya, dulu, sekarang dan esok. Semuanya dalam ketentuan Illahi jua. Kita berjumpa, berpisah ats ketentuanNya jua. tas konsep inilah kito menfaatan setiap momen keindahan. Itu adalah jua ciptaan Illahi. Usah persiakan pemberian-Nya.

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  18. Why am I so depressed emotionally tonight?

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  19. FY, bawalah bebanyak berzikir dan beristigfar. Jiwa pasti akan tenang. Ini adalah janji Allah. Zikir adalah terafi yang terbaik bagi hamba Nya, walau dalam apa situasi sekali pun. Amalkanlah. Soalan soalan anda akan pasti terjawab dengan izin Nya. Walau bagaimanapun, perasaan muram dan resah serta kemurungan pasti akan datang. Tiap perkara itu FY pasti ada jalan keluarnya, dengan Izin Allah. Tiada apa yang mustahil bagi Allah. If depression comes FY, always think that you are not alone. There are other people more depressed than us. Identify the root cause of the depression, ahead lies the theraphy for the remorse. WAllah Hu a'lam.

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  20. Mikuman, ado pun kau mano posting yang kau janji, nganlah janji cam janji kerajaan PR. kito rang dah lamo nabona nunggu eh ni ha. Bedosa tau, ngarap an orang. Tulih lah doreh sikit hah!!

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  21. Mikuman,

    Sepuloh februari kito ko tonyamor
    Menyahut seruan mohamad ibrahim
    Madah mu memanglah penuh gema
    Tompi janji manismu kenapa tak dikirim. Bang oi!!!

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  22. Annonymous I am very very sorry for ignoring you. Its only just now I tumble on your appreciation of the posting above. Thanks ever so much, and amm terribly sorry for the overlook.,sorry again.

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